Learning How To French Kiss

French kissing is the timeless, universal sign of affection, love, and lust. It has been portrayed in this sense in movies and shows alike, and it will continue its timeless sign for centuries to come. Learning how to French kiss can take you and your partner on a journey to a whole other dimension.

If you have never French kissed before, and you feel nervous, perhaps to boost your confidence you should try practicing on something else first. Some good ideas of things to use to practice are either your hand or a soft serve ice cream cone. As absurd or as strange as this sounds, practicing is useful in boosting your confidence and getting better at kissing. Everyone has heard the phrase of “practice makes perfect”; therefore, the more practice you get, thus, the better you will become. If you feel you have enough confidence in yourself, you can take the liberty of bypassing this step.

A big player in learning how to French kiss is attraction and relaxation. Attraction with your partner can be achieved through several routes. Firstly, you can dress in a manner that is likeable to your partner. Try and remember if your partner has ever said anything about an outfit you wore. If you can remember, wear this outfit as it will get your partner in the right mood. Girls should dress flattering to their bodies, and guys should dress nice and clean-cut.

A second route you can take to create attraction is to wear the right perfume or cologne. Likewise with clothes, try remembering a time that your boyfriend or girlfriend said that you smell good. Recent studies have proven that scent is a big player in attraction. Although smelling good is a good thing, do not overpower yourself with your perfume or cologne. If you spray too much, your boy or girl will be too consumed in thought about how strong you smell, rather than how your kisses feel.

As for relaxation, you should try to kiss in a position that is most comfortable for both you and your partner. If you kiss for a long time in an awkward position, your arms, legs, or neck can become strained and tired. Instead of focusing on kissing, you and your partner will be stuck on the fact that your body hurts and aches. Therefore, caressing and holding your partner gently on a soft bed or couch is the best way to boost their comfort and relaxation.

As soon as attraction is set and comfort is set, kissing can begin. As you have probably seen, movies and shows portray French kissing in a sense that you attack your partner with your tongue. This is simply not the case. To get the most affection and feeling out of French kissing, you need to be sure that your actions are calm and slow. Start off by comfortably kissing each other with little pecks. Once you feel like it has been long enough, French kiss your partner by opening your mouth and setting your tongue upon his or her tongue. Do not be too disappointed if your first time is not perfect; furthermore, nothing is perfect your first time. Just keep trying and practicing until you find that perfect kiss between you and your partner.